The Role of the Flower Girl

The Role of the Flower Girl — Grandma's Little Darlings Canada
Grandma's Little Darlings — Kids Formal Wear Canada Since 1985

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You see her walking down the aisle in front of the bride at weddings, looking absolutely adorable in her pretty dress. But now that you're planning your own wedding, you might find yourself wondering — what actually is the role of the flower girl? Aside from looking cute, is there anything else she's meant to do? At Grandma's Little Darlings, we've been dressing flower girls across Canada since 1985 — here's everything you need to know.

What Does a Flower Girl Actually Do?

The main job of a flower girl is to walk down the aisle scattering flower petals — usually right before the maid of honour and behind the ring bearer (if there is one).

If throwing flower petals isn't something you want at your wedding, she can carry a variety of different decorative or fun items instead — bubbles, a wand, or a basket of flowers all work beautifully. If she's a little nervous to walk up the aisle, she could even carry her favourite stuffed animal for an extra cute look!

On the morning of the wedding, you can decide with your flower girl's mom whether she'd like to get ready with you and the rest of the bridesmaids. Depending on her age, it might make the day that much more special for her.

Flower Girl or Junior Bridesmaid?

You may have heard both terms and wondered about the difference:

  • Flower girl — Typically between the ages of 4 and 7. She precedes the wedding party down the aisle, often tossing flower petals or confetti
  • Junior bridesmaid — Generally older, but not quite old enough to join in on some of the more mature bridesmaid activities. She wears a dress that fits with the other bridesmaids and walks with them in the procession. Browse our Junior Bridesmaid Dresses page

Clothing and Accessories

Traditionally a flower girl would wear a mini replica of the bride's or bridesmaid dress. With bridal dresses becoming more unique and progressive, this isn't always the route couples take. It's also not necessary to go with a traditional all-white dress — she can wear a coloured sash or a dress with sparkles if that fits your theme.

There are many different styles of flower girl dresses to choose from — from knee-length dresses with a bow to floor-length gowns, you can find a style that will make her feel absolutely beautiful. As for jewellery, choose something simple and age-appropriate.

Looking for the best value? See our Flower Girl Dresses Sale and Flower Girl Dresses Under $100 pages.

What to Do If She's Nervous to Walk Down the Aisle

If your flower girl is young, she may be fairly nervous. Here are a few ways to help:

  • Give her a buddy — Having someone to hold her hand while she walks to the front might put her more at ease
  • Let her bring her favourite stuffie — Carrying a toy she loves will help her relax as she walks down
  • Have her parents positioned at the front — Seeing mom or dad will give her someone to focus on and walk towards
  • Prepare her well in advance — Talking through her role and what she can expect might calm her nerves. A rehearsal is a great idea too
  • Have a backup plan — After all your preparation, she might still not perform when the time comes. Just know that your guests will find her behaviour adorable, no matter what!

A Flower Girl is an Optional — But Wonderful — Part of a Wedding

While having a flower girl is optional, it's one of the most heartwarming traditions at a wedding. And finding the perfect dress for her doesn't have to be stressful — call us at 905-465-2195 and we'll help you find the perfect style, colour, and size to match your wedding vision.

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Serving Families Across Canada

Shop flower girl dresses online from anywhere in Canada. Toronto, Mississauga, and Brampton customers can choose curbside pickup. Families from coast to coast including Vancouver, Calgary, Winnipeg, and Charlottetown shop online with fast Canada-wide shipping. View all the areas we serve on our Locations We Serve page.

Serving surrounding areas too — Mississauga, Toronto, Oakville, Burlington, Vaughan, Markham, Scarborough, Ajax, Pickering, Whitby, Newmarket, Aurora, and Hamilton — with same-day curbside pickup or Uber Express delivery available.

Questions? Call us at 905-465-2195 or shop online at gld-forkids.com — we'd love to help dress your flower girl for the big day!

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